What dog training taught me about being a professional magician
My wife and I recently adopted two dogs from a rescue (Dignan and Futureman). They’re about 2 years old and, while very sweet, need a lot of training. I’ve been doing some research about the best way to train dogs and, since everything I do gets filtered through the lens of being a Chicago magician, I’ve noticed some of the training concepts can be applied to other areas of life. (Think of it as a hybrid version of “Everything I needed to know I learned in kindergarten,” except I learned it while teaching our dogs to pee outside.)
Here’s the first lesson:
DOG VERSION: You can’t expect a dog to do something they’ve never been taught to do. So when I’m walking our dogs and they don’t “come” to me when I tell them to, I can’t get mad at them. They aren’t ignoring me. They literally don’t know what I’m talking about. I have to teach the command to them before I can possibly expect them to listen.
HUMAN VERSION: As a Chicago magician, and more importantly, an entreprenuer, when I try something new and am horrible at it, it doesn’t mean I’m a failure. It just means I haven’t done it before. Any expectation of mastery is ridiculous. This applies equally as well to new close up magic I’m performing, as it does to new business strategies I’m trying out. Ultimately, there’s no reason for me to be good at something I’ve never done, even if I think I “should” be good at it because “I should be able to do this by now!” or whatever else I tell myself.
This may seem like an obvious observation, but emotionally I get hooked when I fail at something I think I should be good at. However, when I look at it through the simplified world of dog behavior it becomes black and white. Whatever my opinion, if I’ve never done something I have absolutely no reason to be good at it. So any time spent worrying about it is silly. All there is to do is to isolate what works, do more of that, and discard whatever doesn’t.
It’s a very simple, easy to excute on and freeing point of view.
I’m sure as we continue training the dogs I’ll notice more and more, so stay tuned…